We Need to Talk About “Donald”


“I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine.”
— Bruce Lee

What about Donald Trump? What about divisiveness, deviousness and deceit? What about the devil and the deep blue sea?

How does being yourself help here?

And what about disease and disillusionment, the welfare of women, or the poverty of the planet?

What’s love got to do, got to do with any of it?

How about about paedophiles, psychopaths and other social pariahs? Or pervasive pernicious “propaganda”? How about you, too, and all your perennial problems?

Will being yourself make all that go away?

Is being yourself really the magic bullet?

Can peace on earth really be so simple?

Ahh, we need to talk about “Donald”! We need to talk about “Donald”.

First things first, then, “Donald” is a behaviour not a person. Repeat: “Donald” is a behaviour, not a person.

And some behaviours are wiser and more loving than others; some behaviours more welcomed, easier to express.

And ‘behaviour’ is merely thinking in the moment that makes sense to believe in and trust. But thinking changes. And what is believed in changes, too. If you let it.

Let go of negativity, then. Let your frustrations flow. Let your indecision and doubt flourish. Don’t resist anything, not even “Donald”. Not even your arrogance (or dislike of it). Don’t resist “Donald”.

Next “Donald” goes by many names, like Doris and Boris and Derek. Donald goes by your name, too. Because “Donald” is you and you are “Donald”.

For example, did you know that “Donald” is often a “Donald-denier”, and occasionally a “Donald-excuser” and sometimes a “Donald-defender”.

At its simplest: no you, no “Donald”.

Lastly, “Donald” is a messenger, nothing more. A warning. A guidance.

So don’t shoot the messenger, don’t shoot! Listen, notice, understand – and be curious instead.

Learn from “Donald”, please learn. Otherwise “Donald” becomes “DONALD” becomes “DONALD! DONALD! DONALD!”

Let mole hills be mole hills, not mountains.

Don’t resist “Donald”.

Hold back your defences.

And listen.

(You do know how to listen, don’t you? You do know where your answers come from? You do know that there will always be problems, as long as there is you?)

Because you don’t defeat “Donald” by becoming “Donald”. Just as hate is not diminished by more hate. And fear never douses out fear.

And fear manifests itself in oh so many painful ways. Loathing. Anger. Violence. Destruction. “Donald”.

Love is the answer and love is never wrong. Even “Donald” knows this. (Don’t you?)

And love is you being you (and me being me).

Remember: There will always be disagreements, always be discord. Individuality almost demands it. So does culture. And landscape. And climate.

But disagreements can be welcomed, and learned from, rather than routinely resisted.

Let a mole hill be a mole hill.

Let love be love.

What about Donald Trump, then?

Be like “Donald” in response, or be like love?

(You know what to do next, you do! You know what to do…)


Agree with what I’ve shared here? Disagree? Still got questions? Then please leave a comment. 🙂